JUSTICE OF THE PEACE FEES ARE REGULATED BY MASSACHUSETTS STATE LAW (http://www.mass.gov/legal/JOPguidelines.html)
You should also feel comforted in the fact that what you see on my website is me. This is my personality. I like to consider myself as being unique, fun, and very caring. Each and every one of my clients have, and are, treated as individuals and with special care. While some of my clients have required lots of my time, and others have not, each couple has always been treated with my utmost respect and attention.
Marriage License and Officiant Payment are due before the ceremony begins. There are two reasons for this. First, and most importantly, I cannot perform your ceremony until I view the expiration date on your Marriage License. Secondly, once the ceremony ends, couples are very excited to go and take part in the picture session of their wedding. An officiant does not feel comfortable, nor do they want to interfere in this special part of your wedding. In addition, most JPs must leave to perform other ceremonies. Therefore, to make it easier for all, it is best to put the officiant payment in the same envelope with the Marriage License and give it to the best man to hand to the officiant upon arrival of your ceremony. I do not charge for writing your wedding vows. I believe that this should be included in your ceremony fee. However, Ceremony Vows com and are copyrighted. Sadly, a scam has developed – since the "one-day-marriage / special license to marry" has become allowed by some states -- some individuals, certainly not all by any means, "pretend" to hire a Justice of the Peace to officiate over their wedding ceremony. Once they lock in their date, they receive vows written by their officiant. Later, they contact their officiant to inform him / her that they have decided to apply for the “one day / special license for a friend / family member to marry them. “We love your vows, however we no longer need your services.” is the usual line, but not always. While this is, of course, a special day for them to always remember, what is not being remembered is that these vows were not written by their friend or family member, and therefore, these vows, are not their property to use. Nor should they feel good about themselves for using them. If a friend or family member wants to perform the ceremony, that is wonderful and of course, very special, however that friend or family member should write the vows. In addition, the officiant, very kindly, and without taking a deposit -- based on “trust”, locked in the date of their ceremony in his / her calendar, believing that his / her services were now booked on that specific date and time. In turn, they tell other potential clients who really want their services that they are not available, because they believe that they are not. Having said that, effective immediately, while I do not charge for vows, I now require a $50.00 non-refundable deposit, which is part of your $125.00 ceremony fee. Should you decide to cancel your wedding date in my calendar, regardless of your reason, this fee will not be returned. Once you have hired my services, I ask that you immediately send out a check payable to: Carol J. Merletti (Address will be given upon our initial conversation.) I feel horrible that it has had to come to this. I have always been known to work with my clients based on their word, trust, and commitment, because I truly love what I do. But I have learned quickly that I can no longer depend on this because of a certain few who took advantage of my trust. My time, and my efforts that I provide to my clients are very valuable and precious to me. It is a great feeling knowing that I am known for the good work that I provide to my clients. I take great pride in the vows that I have written for each and everyone one of my clients to make them personal. But now I can no longer over look the small number of people who have taken advantage of my good nature. Therefore, I can not, and will not, allow others to take credit for materials that I have written, and will, without a doubt, pursue the matter legally. If you are using materials written by Carol J. Merletti – I will pursue it. |
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